Welcome, November!

I used to consider November a dreary affair. Warm weather has usually slipped away, even in the Southeast. The leaves are off the trees, the days grow shorter, and there’s more time indoors. During the years immediately after losing my father, I felt the pangs of the approaching holiday season, knowing that someone very dear to me would be absent. This November, I’m attempting to focus on some of the rituals that make November special and enjoyable--some of the simple ways that I enjoy the month of November.

Here are some of the informal rituals and signs that let me know that Autumn has arrived:

The chance to unpack my sweaters from the cedar chest that belonged to my grandmother.

Pumpkin is now in season……pumpkin pancakes, pumpkin muffins, pumpkin pie. I’ve even found a new recipe for pumpkin gnocchi in the “Simply Organic” seasonal cookbook I received last Valentine’s day.

Lighting the first fire of the season in our fireplace.

Dressing my son in his adorable fleece, footed pajamas.

Planning for the big holiday gathering with my extended family.

Often the first freezes and frosts of the season in Middle Tennessee.

Advent is just around the corner, the beginning of the Church year. (But no Winter Holiday music or décor before Thanksgiving please! Let’s give November its due!).

Darker skies and cooler weather = more time in the kitchen trying new recipes, tasting good wine, and then dining by candlelight!

An opportunity to focus on gratitude and to give to others.

This November I’m going to be making some changes, seizing the opportunity to make the most of the coming of Fall and Winter. We’ll see how it goes!

What are some rituals that you or your family enjoy as the seasons turn?